Is this your situation?
You know what to do; you just don't do it. And that is a mystery to you.
If you've read the books, watched the videos, know the quotes, and can advise or "coach" others but can't make the changes or achieve your desired goals, what is missing?
It makes no sense. You're smart enough. You know plenty, but it's still not happening. You get so far in your personal development and pursuit of your goals, and at some point, you fizzle out, forget, and lose momentum and motivation. What's going on? It is very frustrating. It can be maddening.
Here's the thing. The very strengths you have of being responsible, self-reliant, and having high expectations are inadvertently (and innocently) working against you without you knowing it.
Three things are working against you doing it on your own.
1. Lack of Objectivity. None of us can be objective about ourselves. We are right in the middle of our world. We are the subject. Being the subject, we cannot be objective enough to effectively see where we are and what it will take to get us to the next level. We're too much in it to see it clearly.
2. Perfectionism. Our Perfectionistic tendencies sabotage us repeatedly in ways we don't see, know, or understand. We've taken Perfectionism on as if it were our best friend when, in fact, it is eating us alive. We believe we must be "Perfect" in who we are and our performance or we will not survive, not realizing it is our Perfectionism that keeps us in our survival and from thriving.
3. Our habits. Our habits are much more powerful, hidden, and dominating than we realize, particularly our fear-driven and avoidance habits. They operate at a subconscious level purposefully. It is almost as if they do not want to be discovered. And in many ways, that is very true. Who wants to be found out, especially about those things we feel the most vulnerable about?
If you know the personal development material yet are not doing it and you've had enough of knowing but are going nowhere, I invite you to break free of that cycle. End it today. Let's have a chat to begin opening new doors, get you out of your cage, and move into a bigger, more exciting, and fulfilling life. It costs you nothing, and there is no obligation. If you are serious, this is the time. This is your time.
Can talk by phone or Zoom. The important thing is to get started. My best to you!
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